Seeing Yourself through Your Dog's Eyes

Sometimes I left life get bigger than myself.
Sometimes I let life bring me down and put a value on my worth.
Stupid, I know.

As I was sulking during my lunch break, my sweet old man of a dog sat by me and gave me a big 'ol wet kiss.

That's when it hit me; that's when I stopped and saw the bigger picture.
I saw myself how my dog sees me.

He doesn't care about the extra weight I put on.
He doesn't care what my hair looks like or what clothes I'm wearing.
He certainly doesn't care what my job title is or how much money I make.

He sees me for who I am based on the things he sees me do.
He sees me as someone who loves him unconditionally, and can't stay mad at him if he has an accident.
He sees me as the lady he loves to pull on walks and rewards him with treats.

He sees my tears and gets sad eyes.
He sees me as someone worth loving.

He loves me despite it all: despite not taking him on walks everyday and despite leaving him home alone while I work.

 

Despite it all, he sits there and waits for me and waits to love me.

When life gets too big or too much, just remember how your dog sees you.

WOMEN: Stop Comparing Yourself!

As women, we share a sisterhood. The kind of bond that doesn't have to be spoken or flashy; the kind that enables us to relate to each other as we try to find ourselves in the world around us.

We share the bond of knowing what it means to be a woman--a bond that cannot be taken away.

Despite all this, why is it so hard for us to empower one another?
We're constantly in competition with each other instead of reaching out to lift each other up.
We form cliques that are exclusive to a group of people that we deem are the only ones fit to join. This cliques go beyond friendship and are even in the work place.

Why? One simple action: comparisson.
We are constantly comparing ourselves to everyone around us. It doesn't matter what the comparison, we are always finding something in someone else to compare against ourselves.

Why do we constantly compare ourselves?
Theodore Roosevelt said, "Comparison is the thief of joy," and boy is he right.

Before we go compare ourselves, we need to ask ourselves a few questions:

• Do I have control over the item I'm comparing myself to? 
• Example: She's such a fast runner; I want to be a fast runner. Oh wait, I've had three knee surgeries...so, yeah, that's not realistic.
•  What is it that I really want?
• Example: She's so lucky that she doesn't have to work. Oh wait, maybe it's not her I'm jealous of, it's just that I'm not satisfied with my job.

• Am I comparing apples to oranges?

• Remember: That girl your comparing yourself to might be working on a project for years. Instead of being jealous that it worked for her, start looking at your own project and get it moving.

Life is hard. Let's not make it harder on ourselves. You are GREAT as is. If someone makes you feel otherwise, then go to where you're celebrated not tolerated. There are people out there who love you and think you're GREAT just the way you are.

Let's do ourselves a favor and start living like we each are fine with the people we are.